So as to not jack the other thread where this topic originated, I'll post this here.
found a decent looking recipe.
Amazing Paleo Paleo Recipes Paleo Simple Coconut Bread - Free Recipe by Amazing Paleo
I followed this recipe almost exactly with mostly the same ingredients, thank you expensive by nature.
I added a little more honey and just used regular coconut oil instead of spray. I used an 8x8 brownie pan instead of bread.